Growing in Our Love for Jesus

by | Jun 30, 2026

The fear of the Lord has become one of the most neglected truths among the Christian community, small groups, and Bible schools. Why? Could the absence of this foundational truth be one of the primary reasons so many believers struggle to remain passionately devoted to Jesus?

The fear of the Lord is not merely reverence for God’s power or the desire to avoid judgment. It is a holy awe that captivates the heart with the beauty, holiness, majesty, and worthiness of Jesus Christ. Healthy fear does not drive us away from Him—it draws us nearer. It produces humility, surrender, obedience, and an ever-deepening love for the One who first loved us.

This is why the fear of the Lord and our first love cannot be separated.

When Jesus spoke to the church at Ephesus, He did not rebuke them for a lack of doctrine, service, discernment, or perseverance. In many ways, they were doing everything right. Yet He declared, “I have this against you, that you have left your first love.” Their activity for Christ had continued, but their devotion to Christ had diminished. They had become occupied with the work of God while slowly drifting from the heart of God.

The fear of the Lord continually guards us from that drift. It keeps Jesus enthroned as the supreme affection of our hearts. It reminds us that Christianity is first a relationship before it is a responsibility; communion before commission; abiding before accomplishing. The fear of the Lord protects us from substituting ministry for intimacy, knowledge for relationship, performance for surrender, or religious activity for genuine love.

Could this be why Scripture warns of a great falling away in the last days? Paul writes, “Let no one deceive you by any means; for that Day will not come unless the falling away comes first…” (2 Thessalonians 2:3). Apostasy rarely begins with openly denying Christ. More often, it begins with hearts gradually losing their awe of Him. As holy fear diminishes, first love grows cold. As first love fades, devotion weakens. When devotion weakens, compromise becomes easier, deception becomes more convincing, and hearts slowly drift from the One they once joyfully followed.

Jesus’ call to “return to your first love” is therefore much more than an emotional appeal. It is a call to restore the fear of the Lord—to behold Him again in His holiness, glory, authority, mercy, and love until every competing affection bows before Him. The fear of the Lord rekindles wonder. Wonder rekindles worship. Worship rekindles wholehearted devotion. And wholehearted devotion produces joyful obedience, steadfast faithfulness, and lives that faithfully represent Christ.

I am convinced that the Church’s greatest need is not simply more biblical knowledge, larger ministry venues, or greater influence. Our greatest need is a fresh revelation of Jesus Christ that restores the fear of the Lord, rekindles our first love, and calls us back to wholehearted devotion to Him and His ministry of reconciliation.

The Church will not be sustained by activity alone. She will endure because she has seen the beauty of her Bridegroom, stands in holy awe of His presence, and loves Him above all else.

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